The best definition of LOVE.
Love is patient and kind, it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited, it is never rude or selfish, it does not take offense, nor is it resentful.
Do you feel like what it says? Or has it become some daily routine to keep up with the relationship? No more initial sparks/chemistry? Do you still feel the thrill of those random kisses? Smile like a retard upon receiving his messages? Or has it become a drag to talk to each other? Losing temper frequently ain't a good sign. Don't step into the stage whereby you guys take each other for granted. Hurling vulgarities or nasty words to each other only bear grudges, in the end everyone explode; fight again..some sort of circular route.
There's no 100% perfect couple, only imperfect 50%+50%. That's why you guys need to complement each other! His weakness shall be your strength, vice versa His strength may be your weakness.
You still carry the ring on your fourth finger, don't be too quick to make a decision. I don't know him well so I can't say much. It takes time & effort, more importantly, a lot of Love. Try these; 5 Actions of Love! (Improve on those)
1) Words of affirmation- Be tactful, not just truthful
2) Give each other some quality time- Doing things both of you enjoy
3) Surprise each other with gifts
4) Acts of service- Be sweet to massage or do some chores for him
5) Physical touch- More lovely hugs or a smooch
*Communication- the most important factor to sustain a long-lasting relationship.
Follow your heart, she knows it all (:
If,. after trying those above, the relationship is still strained, drop the baggage, move on. You tried your best.
Remember, it takes 2 hands to clap!
Love,
Agony aunt
p.s Stop trampling all over me! Please retain some tiny pieces of your brain to discern. I keep my mouth close doesn't mean I am guilty of anything, I just can't be bothered to explain the truth & badmouth or should I say speaking of the REAL TRUTH. Stop provoking me by been a total retard. Being nice & soft-hearted doesn't mean you can bully me over & over again. I have my limit. I already swallowed all those unjust, what's more do you want?!